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Professional Dating Coach Reveals Her 3 Texting Rules
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A professional dating coach is here to help you with your texting game.
Texting can be one of the most difficult parts of an early relationship or dating pursuit. You don’t want to text too much and come across as overeager or desperate. Of course, you don’t want to text too little and possibly indicate a lack of interest.
Blaine Anderson, a professional dating coach who launched her own dating platform, has come up with three strong texting rules for her clients when they are early on in the dating or relationship process.
The former University of Arizona student, who previously worked in the travel industry, launched Dating By Blaine a couple of years ago.
Blaine Anderson.
Here are Anderson’s three texting rules to live by right now.
1. Ditch the emojis
While emojis can be fun, Anderson believes they are too risky. They can make you come across as childish or immature or just downright weird.
“They can make you come across as immature and even less masculine,” she says.
2. End on a high note
The conversation, especially early on, does not need to drag on forever.
“When you feel the conversation reach its peak, end the conversation and leave her wanting more.”
3. Never double text
Ah, the constant question for people in the dating world. Can you text someone twice in a row if they didn’t respond to the first text? Anderson’s answer: no.
“If she left you on read, it’s a choice. She’s not interested, so keep it moving.”
That might be a tough pill to swallow for some, but it’s true. If someone hasn’t responded to your first text, it doesn’t mean that they haven’t seen it. It just means that they are not interested in responding.
Never double text.
